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29th Mar 2018

91: Words or Weapons

SUMMARY

Your words create your reality. Be aware of the words you say to yourself every day, consciously or unconsciously. You are happy or sad, productive or frustrated, growing or stuck, rich or poor because of the language you use in your daily self-talk.

SHOW NOTES

  • “The pen is mightier than the sword.” [0:33]
  • Quote from novelist and playwright, Edward Bulwer Lytton. [0:41]
  • I’m launching an additional short weekly episode of Change Your Story, Change Your Life. [0:55]
  • This new format is called One Word Story. [1:13]
  • Words shape your reality. [1:35]
  • A variation on “the pen is mightier than the sword.” [1:55]
  • Variation was said by Robert Burton in “The Anatomy of Melancholy,” written in the early 17th century. [2:06]
  • Burton’s variation: “A blow with a word strikes deeper than a blow with a sword.” [2:15]
  • How often do you hurt yourself with your words? [2:35]
  • We will explore a different word in each short episode. [2:50]
  • You will become aware of the multiple meanings of the words you use. [2:56]
  • Learn and apply the Giggle Test. [3:16]
  • Sometimes, a great compliment can make you uncomfortable. [3:21]
  • We all have great potential talent. [4:25]
  • Final thought: You can either lead or be led. [4:37]
  • You can’t truly lead unless you read. [4:45]
  • There are no reasons for not reading, only excuses. [5:51]
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About the Podcast

Change Your Story, Change Your Life
Influences: Tony Robbins, T. Harv Eker, Wayne Dyer, Jim Rohn, Napoleon Hill, Andrew Carnegie, Dale Carnegie, Oprah, Robert Kiyosaki, Robin Sharma, Facebook, Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates, LinkedIn, Twitter, method acting, Marlon Brando, Marcus Aurelius
Humans are storytelling machines. You and I are constantly creating, destroying, elevating, and diminishing ourselves with our inner narratives that appear and disappear in our minds 24/7. Most people are not aware of this process. As a result, they believe that life is happening to them. This feels random, chaotic, and scary. Why do people tolerate it? Because they tell themselves, "That's the way it is. That is reality." Those seven words could not be farther from the truth.

This podcast will explore the storytelling process that is responsible for every facet of your life. It will discuss and encourage ways to take control of your personal narrative so that you can begin directing your destiny with an empowering story.

About your host

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Louis Di Bianco

Louis Di Bianco is a storyteller. He fell in love with storytelling as a child. In his teens, his ability to tell entertaining stories saved his life on the streets of the Bronx, where he grew up. He discovered quickly how to make the neighborhood tough guys like, trust, and respect him by engaging them with stories.

Louis became a professional stage and screen actor to get paid for his love of storytelling. He has appeared in numerous feature films, TV movies, and television series, as well as performing on stage internationally.

He has taught acting for both stage and camera for as long as he has been an actor. We're talking more than four decades. Eventually, he created courses in compelling communication for business people who want to present their ideas, products, and services to the world with clarity, confidence, and persuasive power.

Louis takes the words, Change Your Story, Change Your Life, very seriously. His life experience has taught him that every word we utter, every belief we embrace, is a made up story. Even your past is a made up story that seems so vivid that you swear it's real. Accept that, and you remove all the barriers between you and your dreams. You will be able to enjoy the adventure of changing your story to change your life.